The first time I used a laundry machine in the US, I was unaware of the concept of sorting. So of course that virgin load emerged a bright Barbie pink hue! Horrified, I put the clothes back for a wash
Coral Raw Silk
Photographs of me always take me by surprise. In my mind’s eye, and in my mirror I look very different. But then I shrug and turn away, it wasn’t important how I looked. Externals are just superficial, and I had
1990s H4 Bride: In Laws’ Visits
One of the rituals all H4 brides went through was the first in-laws’ visit. I was still dealing with the transition from single to married, doctor to housewife, financially independent to dependent, full service help (maid/ launderer/ gardener) to no
1990s H4 Bride
All the recent layoffs reminded me of the anxious years I spent as a H4 bride. It was a different time, of course, but the vulnerability to abrupt, unexpected dismissal was the same. TLDR: nostalgia The first
LinkedIn “Women need to take more risks”
My friends and I have had many discussions about women in the workplace. The gender pay gap is usually a controversial topic. While the younger feminists hold women accountable for their “lack of ambition”, and the older ones cite socio